Tuesday, November 15, 2011

That crazy little thing…called life!


I always thought I knew so much about life. I had defined my life path a long time ago, and everybody applauded me on being such a smart little girl that knew just what she wants, and was never afraid to fight for it. Along the way, as my life was going just in the direction that fit perfectly into my plans, I have met some interesting people, seen some fabulous places...learned so much. And, I’ll tell you this: yes, it is good when life goes just as you have planned it! Until one day, it just doesn’t! And, until one day, you just have no clue about life!

What happens then? What happens when you wake up one day and something that was not drawn into your plans occurs? Something you thought COULD NOT and WOULD NOT ever happen to you? Losing a person you love, and you thought you could not live without, going through a divorce, losing your job, illness, losing a friend, you name it! How you react and what you do in those situations reflect who you are, and what life has thought you up to that point. 

At first, you may be shocked and shattered, without a will to get up in the morning, and you may want to sleep through it, and wake up as nothing has even happened. You may cry. You may scream.  You may turn off your phone, and shut everybody out of your life. You may eat as much ice-cream as you want. Nothing will help.
Nothing will help, until you pull yourself together and embrace the change as something inevitable, cut your loses, let go of your fears and start fresh. Once you make a decision to do that, you will be able to see all the new range of opportunities never considered before.

Your life may turn out so totally different from your initial plan, or you maybe even end up living a life without a plan. No matter what, change is something that rarely comes from within. Instead, it is inflicted upon us. Luckily, we can lose ourselves in the change and amazing things can happen. 

Guaranteed.

‘’If nothing ever changed, there’d be no butterflies’’ 

Love,
Black&WhiteHeaven


~ 5 comments: ~

Rachel Danielle W says:
at: November 15, 2011 at 9:24 AM said...

inspirational post! thanks for this:)

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CR says:
at: November 15, 2011 at 6:14 PM said...

That´s why we should never have all of our live planned and figure out so soon. Bad and good things make us grow...so let them come.

xx

B & W Heaven says:
at: November 15, 2011 at 8:33 PM said...

We all end up making some plans…until we learn it’s better to have no plans at all, and instead just be ready for whatever comes our way…

Ilana says:
at: November 15, 2011 at 11:28 PM said...

darling your blog is amazing its exactly the type of blog I like to read with a little bit of everything!
I have added your button to my blog thanks for adding mine. let me know if you want to swap guest posts sometime
XX Ilana
http://mymodernvintagefashion.blogspot.com/

Elly says:
at: November 17, 2011 at 2:58 AM said...

This is really inspirational :)

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